“求助:已经上学的男孩遇事总是哭怎么办?”这是网上的一个帖子。短短一个问句流露出求助者内心的焦虑与烦躁。此时,在我眼前出现了一系列性别符号:血性、刚毅、隐忍、勇敢、负责、坚忍不拔……这几乎已经成为了对男性特征约定俗成的描述。然而,在现实生活中,有些男孩子,在成长的一定时期,却走向了这种约定俗成的反面:与那些“小男子汉”相比,时不时挂在眼角的泪水,让他们看起来显得有些脆弱。于是,便有了这期话题。你是否正在为自己的宝贝儿子爱哭而焦虑?孩子爱哭该怎么办?在男孩子社会化的过程中,父母应该扮演怎样的角色? 本期,我们请来了6位男孩子的妈妈,来讲述她们的孩子有关哭的故事。 “Help: boys have gone to school always crying how to do?” This is a post online. A short question reveals the anxiety and irritability of the caller. At this moment, a series of gender symbols appeared in front of me: bloody, resolute, forbear, courageous, responsible, perseverance ... It has almost become the common description of the male character. However, in real life, some boys, at a certain period of their growth, have come to this conventional contradiction: the tears hanging from time to time in the corner of their eyes compared with those of the “little man” make them appear somewhat fragile. So, there is this topic. Are you anxious about crying and crying for your baby son? What should children do when crying? What kind of role should parents play in the socialization of boys? In this issue, we invited 6 boys’ mums, To tell their children about the story of crying.