在军事活动中,有时在连战连胜的情况下,在关键的一仗中失利,往往会导致整个战役的失败。反之,有时连战失利而在关键的时刻取得胜利,会使整个战局发生根本性的变化,能使自己转败为胜。教育过程也是这样,如果在一些关键时刻教育失当,那会使我们前功尽弃。不少家长都有这种经验,才过去一个不长的时间,孩 In military activities, losing the key battle at times in the Lien Chan war often leads to the failure of the entire campaign. On the other hand, sometimes losing the war and winning the victory at a crucial moment will fundamentally change the entire war situation and turn itself into victory. The same is true of the educational process, which can lead to discouragement if education is misdirected at some crucial moment. Many parents have this experience, only in the past not a long time, child