贾母所在的院落居于荣国府的最下首——在西角门进去。分析原因是由于其丈夫贾代善已经去世。她必须遵循“在家从父,出嫁从夫,夫死从子”之道。也就是说随着贾代善的去世,她已经失去了住上房的资格。但贾母却偏偏又是贾府的最高统治者,原因她是长辈,是老祖宗。可见“孝道”在像贾府这样的大家族里对人们的思想行为的影响是十分强大的。初到贾府的林黛玉拜见外祖母后,接下来要拜访两位舅舅,贾赦是大舅舅,当然先得到他那儿。可是,去的路径却很有讲究。若从路近、方便的角度考虑,荣国府内部各个院落之间有通道相同,可从里面穿过去。而实际上,黛玉是从贾母房里出来,“出了西角门,往东过荣府正门,便入一黑油大门中。”——她是从外面的大街上绕一个大圈子过去的。稍加推敲,我们就会发现,若从院内径直去,势必得从二舅舅的门前经过,过门不入显得失礼,因此必须绕道而行。拜见完大舅舅,不是直接从大舅舅那儿往二舅舅 The courtyard where Jiamu is located resides at the bottom of the Rongguo House - entering at the West Gate. The reason for the analysis was due to the death of her husband, Jia Daishan. She must follow the principle of “from the father at home, from husband to husband, husband to die”. In other words, with the death of Jia Daishan, she has lost her qualification to live in the house. However, Jia Jia was the highest ruler of Jia’s house because she was an elder and was an ancestor. Visible “filial piety ” in a large family such as Jia, the impact on people’s thinking and behavior is very strong. After Lin Yuyu arrived in Jiafu to meet her grandmother, she would then visit the two sisters. Jia Hao was a big sister and of course got him first. However, the path to go is very particular. If you consider from the point of view of proximity and convenience, there are the same passages among the various courtyards inside Rong Guo House, and you can go through them from inside. In fact, Daiyu came out of Jia Mu’s room and “went out of the West Gate and passed through the main gate of Wing House to the east and got into a black oil door.” — she was winding a large street from the outside. Circles past. With a little bit of scrutiny, we will find that if we go straight from the inner diameter of the hospital, we will have to pass through the front door of the second chamber. If we fail to pass through the entrance, it will appear impolite. Therefore, we must detour. When you meet Daisuke, you don’t go directly from Otsuka to Erji.