我是一名教师,同时也是一位妈妈。我曾努力要全心全意做个好母亲,可是在教养女儿的过程中,总是感到力不从心,经常处在挫败之中。一开始我不知是什么原因,后来才意识到是职业的缘故。我总爱挑毛病,认为当老师的责任就是去发现学生的错误,然后帮助他们改正。所以,在家里我也是一看到女儿的错误,马上就纠正;可女儿的错误越来越多,而且总也改不了。女儿常常对我说“妈妈你总是在指责我!”我的回答却是:“我帮你改毛病,为什么你老记不住呢?!”有时我们因此争吵,造成关系很紧张,彼此都受到伤害。 I am a teacher and a mom. I tried hard to be a good mother wholeheartedly, but in the process of raising my daughters, I always feel overwhelmed, often in frustration. I did not know what the reason was from the beginning, and later realized that it was a career. I always love to pick the wrong thing, thinking that when the teacher’s responsibility is to find out the mistakes of the students, and then help them to correct them. So, at home, I also saw my daughter’s mistake and corrected it immediately. My daughter’s mistakes are getting more and more, and I can not change it. My daughter always said to me “Mom, you always blame me!” My answer is: “I’ll help you get something wrong, why do you never remember it ?!” Sometimes we get into a quarrel Tense, hurt each other.