人的命运,受两个方面的条件所影响:一个是外部的环境;另一个是自身的内部条件。由于内因起决定作用,本文重点谈谈后者。人应该自己掌握自己的命运。然而,怎样才能掌握自己的命运呢?由于个性决定命运,因此,应从培养优化个性谈起。什么是个性?在心理学中,个性和人格是同义语,在我国香港等地区的心理学界习惯于把性格翻译为人格; Human destiny is affected by two conditions: one is the external environment; the other is its own internal conditions. As the internal factors play a decisive role, this article focuses on the latter. People should master their own destiny. However, how can we control our own destiny? Because personality determines fate, we should talk about cultivating and optimizing personality. What is personality? In psychology, personality and personality are synonymous, psychology community in Hong Kong and other regions of our country is used to translate personality into personality;