我曾看到这样一篇文章,是毕淑敏的请为你的夸奖道歉》,文中谈到北欧一个教授要求中国学者向她女儿道歉的事情。教授认为中国学者的夸奖伤害了她的女儿:“你是因为她的漂亮而夸奖她,而漂亮不是她的功劳,这取决于我和她父亲的遗传基因,与她个人基本上没有关系。你夸奖了她,孩子很 I have seen such an article by Bi Shumin, please apologize for your compliment. “This article talks about a professor from Northern Europe who asked Chinese scholars to apologize to her daughter. The professor thinks the Chinese scholars’ compliment hurts her daughter: ”You praised her for her beauty and her beauty is not her credit, depending on my father and her father’s genetic gene, which is basically unrelated to her. Praise her, children are