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许多家长都在寻找教子秘方,有什么灵丹妙药能让孩子成人,教子成材?其实最大的秘方只有四个字:以身作则。正如法官父亲张敏华所言:“天真无邪的孩子也许还不明是非,但是我们的言行会不经意地影响甚至改变孩子纯洁的心灵;孩子是一面明亮的镜子,常常窥视着我们的心灵。”家长曹剑萍也说:“在幼儿眼里,父母是世上最强有力的人,有着牢不可破的权威性。可以这样说:带孩子看10场儿童教育片,还不如大人的一次真实行为影响深刻。”也许你没有很多的时间教子,但只要你心正身正,以身作则,你就是在教育孩子,而且是不知不觉中最有魅力的教育。这一期“教子有方”栏目里的两篇短文,就是两位家长在这方面的深切体会,值得一读。
Many parents are looking for teaching secret recipe, what miraculous medicine can make children adults, teaching materials? In fact, the largest secret only four words: lead by example. As the judge’s father, Zhang Minhua, put it: “Innocent children may still be unclear, but our words and deeds will inadvertently affect or even change the innocence of our children. The children are bright mirrors and often look into our hearts.” “ Parents Cao Jianping also said: ”In the eyes of young children, parents are the most powerful people in the world, with unbreakable authority. It can be said: With children watching 10 children’s educational films, not as good as adults, a real behavior profound impact. “Maybe you do not have much time to teach, but as long as you are upright and lead by example, you are educating children and are the most attractive education unknowingly. The two essays in this issue of ”Teaching Children with Scenes" are the two parents’ profound experience in this regard and they are worth reading.