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改变不了世俗,改变不了别人,就只有改变自己老吴满心憧憬地自主择业了。没过多长时间,他就觉察到了异样。他是个爱热闹的人,在部队时就有不少地方上的和部队的朋友,有事没事喜欢和朋友泡在一起,为此没少挨媳妇的抱怨和批评。自主择业后,他明显感觉和以前不一样了,朋友邀约的少了,亲戚上门的少了。以前在部队时,每月手机费两三百元,而现在一个月50元都用不完。见到熟人,发现他们不像以前那么主动谦恭热情了,从他们的眼光中,他明显感觉到了敷衍、疏远和冷淡。开始的时候,他以为自己做错了什么事情,是不是说话做事不小心伤到人家了。想来想去,好像没有。他有点想不明白了,问自己:
Can not change the secular, can not change others, only to change their old Wu full of longing for self-employment. Not long before, he noticed the same. He is a lively person. There are quite a few local and army friends in the army. When things are gone, they like to bubble up with their friends, and they are not less complaining and criticized by their wives. After choosing their own jobs, he obviously felt different from the previous ones. There were fewer friends and fewer relatives came home. Previously in the army, the monthly mobile phone costs two or three hundred dollars, and now 50 yuan a month are used up. See acquaintances, found that they are not so active before the courtesy and enthusiasm, from their perspective, he obviously felt perfunctory, alienated and indifferent. The beginning, he thought he did something wrong, is not talking to do things accidentally hurt others. Want to go, it seems not. He did not understand a bit, ask yourself: