我在年轻时就学到了一句话:“成功的人生不在于握有一手好牌,而在于把一手坏牌打得可圈可点。”所谓牌,是指一个人的天赋条件,包括时代背景、家庭资源、个人性格,等等。当然,所谓好坏,都是相对的,是比较之后的结果。人在比较时,很容易注意别人的优势,而忽略了自己也拥有某些优势。譬如,年轻就是最大的优势,但是有多少年轻人肯定自己的这项优势呢?年轻为什么算是优势?因为人在 I learned a word when I was young: “A successful life is not about holding a good hand, but about putting a bad hand on it.” The so-called card refers to a person’s natural condition, including the age Background, family resources, personal traits, and more. Of course, the so-called good or bad, are relative, is the result of comparison. When people are comparing, it is easy to pay attention to the superiority of others and neglect that they also have certain advantages. For example, young is the biggest advantage, but how many young people affirm their own advantages? Young Why is the advantage? Because people are