村民刘某之女娟娟与邻村青年柱子确定了恋爱关系,并得到双方家长及村民的认可。两人均符合结婚条件, 并准备结婚。但男方家穷,拿不出刘某按农村习惯索要的几万元彩礼,刘某便要求女儿和柱子断绝关系。刘某多次劝解其女无效,便采取了强硬措施, Villager Juan Juanjuan and neighboring village youth pillar to determine the relationship between love, and by both parents and villagers recognized. Both are eligible for marriage and are ready to get married. However, the man’s family was poor and could not take out the tens of thousands of bridewealths that Liu requested according to the rural habit. Liu asked the daughter and the pillars to cut off the relationship. Liu repeatedly tried to persuade his daughter is invalid, they have taken tough measures,