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那晚是心理热线开通一周年以来的第一个周未。临近半夜下班时间,有一位中年妇女打来电话,她说:“今晚我丈夫不在家,我把他的一些情况跟你说说。请你帮我诊断一下我丈夫是不是有精神病。”我静静地听她叙述。据这位妇女说,结婚前,她对自己的丈夫了解不多,只知道他是个性格内向的人,平时沉默寡言,很少与别人交往。但当时并没有认为是缺点,相反,因为她自己生性热情、外向,认为性格上两人正好“互补”,因而恋爱时间不长,就匆忙结婚了。婚后她才逐渐发现,自己的丈夫原来是个“冷漠无情的人”。在生活中,无论对谁,都一概冷若冰霜,甚至对自己的子女也一样。
That night was the first week since the psychological hotline was opened. Near middle of the night after midnight, a middle-aged woman called and said, “My husband is not at home tonight, and I will tell you some of his situations. Please help me diagnose whether my husband is mentally ill.” I quietly listen to her narration. According to the woman, before getting married, she did not know much about her husband. She only knew that he was an introverted person, who was usually quiet and rarely intercourse with others. But at that time did not think it was a disadvantage, on the contrary, because of her own passionate, outgoing, that the character of the two just “complementary”, so love is not long, they got married in a hurry. After marriage, she gradually discovered that her husband turned out to be an “indifferent person.” In life, no matter who, are frosty, even for their own children.