大学毕业分配到城里,在找对象这个问题上,母亲确是为我担心了一阵的。我兄弟姐妹都在农村,家庭经济状况不好。母亲常说:“城里人眼头高,肯定瞧不起农村人。” 说多了,心中固有的自卑感也泛起来,我跟着有些不安。蜜月里,我将母亲和我的担忧说与妻听,妻微微一笑:“你文革遗风还挺严重嘛。既然选择了你,也就不唯成分论了,等着看招好了。” When I graduated from college and was assigned to the city, my mother was really worried about me for a while. My siblings are in rural areas and my family’s economic situation is not good. My mother often said: “The people in the city have high eyes and certainly despise the rural people.” More to say, the inherent inferiority complex also floated in my heart, and I followed with some unease. In my honeymoon, I said to my wife and my wife that my wife smiled: "Your legacy of the Cultural Revolution is quite serious, and since you have chosen you, you are not only a matter of composition, waiting for you to see a good move.