生活中时常有人羡慕成功者的天赋,埋怨自己没有什么特长。经常听到这样的概叹,“我实在是无能为力了!”“我这一辈子就是这个样子了!”这些人往往只习惯于通过目前所从事的职业这一狭窄的范围来评判自己的能力,失去了许多尝试的机会,相当大的潜力没有被挖掘出来。美国社会学家波拉·尼尔森说过:“人有优点,也有弱点,而花费大量时间去改正自身缺点以适应环境,将会浪费大量的精力,我的经验却建议人们将注意力集中在自己特殊的才能上。” 人生在世,必有所长,一切本事都是自己的,而且很早就具备了,但人们往往难以发现。有位名人说过:一个看不到自己长处的人,比看不到自己短处更为可悲。因为看不到自己的短处,虽然会多走些弯路,甚至受些挫折,但他毕竟知道发挥自己的长处,明白自己该怎样进取,最终必然取得成绩。而看不到自己长处的人,连自己主攻方向都找不到,还谈什么奋发进取呢?结果只是一个劲地怨天尤人,唉声叹气。不知道自己原来是能干的,岂不悲哉!因此,要想获得成绩,必须发掘自己的特长,在人生的坐标上找到属于自己的正确位置。 Sometimes people in life envy the talent of success, complain that they have no expertise. Often hear such a sigh, “I really powerless!” “My whole life is like this!” These people are often accustomed to judging their own ability through the current narrow range of occupations, loss For many opportunities to try, considerable potential has not been tapped. Polla Nielsen, an American sociologist, said: “People have advantages and weaknesses, and spending a lot of time to correct their shortcomings to adapt to the environment will waste a lot of energy. My experience suggests that people should pay attention to themselves Special talent. ”Life is alive, there must be director, all the skills are their own, and has long been available, but people are often difficult to find. A celebrity said: A person can not see their strengths, can not see their own weaknesses more deplorable. Because he can not see his own shortcomings, though he will take more detours and even suffer some setbacks, he knows after all his own strengths and understanding of how to make progress and will eventually achieve success. But can not see their strengths, even their main direction can not find, but also talk about what to forge ahead? The result is only bitterly, moan and sigh. Therefore, in order to obtain the result, we must discover our own specialty and find our own correct position in the coordinate of our life.