让我们先来重温一个故事。一个即将出嫁的女孩,向她的母亲提了一个问题:“妈妈,婚后我该怎么把握爱情呢?”“傻孩子,爱情怎么能把握呢?”母亲诧异道。“那爱情为什么不能把握呢?”女孩疑惑地追问。母亲听了女孩的问话,温情地笑了笑,然后慢慢蹲下,从地上捧起一捧沙子,送到女孩面 Let’s review a story first. A girl who is about to marry asked her mother a question: “Mom, how can I get hold of love after marriage?” “A silly boy, how can love hold?” Said the mother in surprise. “Why can not that love grasp?” The girl asked in doubt. Mother heard the girl’s questioning, smiled warmly, and then slowly squatting, holding a handful of sand from the ground, to the girls face