A我们这一代人,大半是必须要有一个婚姻的。除非半路丧了偶或离异,之后无论如何也不凑合。自己过下去,最初是难的,后来也是,难。但是再难的事成了常态,自己又不肯妥协,也就过下去了,也是一辈子。过去的人是单位的动物,生产队也是单位,单位对个人的管理那叫一个门清,不用填履历表,每个人的经历都烙在别人的脑子里,想改也改不了。白天一起上班,晚上在一个院儿生活,上班喝茶聊天, A majority of our generation must have a marriage. Unless halfway funeral even or divorced, after any case does not make sense. It is difficult at first to survive, and later it is difficult. However, the difficult thing has become the norm, and they refused to compromise, it will go on, but also for a lifetime. The past people are the animals of the unit, the production team is also a unit, and the management of the individual unit is called a door clear, without a resume, everyone’s experience is branded in the minds of others, want to change can not change. Working together during the day, living in a courtyard at night, talking to work and drinking tea,