世间万事万物都是有诀窍,有规律的,只要我们找到这个诀窍,一切问题都会迎刃而解!大文豪托尔斯泰在《安娜·卡列妮娜》的扉页上的一个有名的题记所说,幸福的家庭总是相同的,而不幸的家庭各有各的不幸。所以,幸福家庭一定是有窍门、有规律的。大道至简,窍门、规律都是简单的。用一句话来概括这个诀窍,就是:己所不欲,勿施于人,己所欲之,先施于人。悟透这句话,可以处好所有的人际关系(包括夫妻关系、亲子关系、婆媳关系),让你周围的人都尊重你,喜欢你。 As long as we find this trick, everything will be solved! The famous writer Tolstoy on the title page of Anna Karenina said happiness The families are always the same, and the unfortunate ones have their own misfortunes. So, happy family must be a trick, a regular. Avenue to Jane, tips, laws are simple. To summarize this trick in one sentence is: Do not do what you do not want to do, do what you want, apply it to others. Wu insight through this sentence, can handle all the relationships (including the relationship between husband and wife, parent-child relationship, law-abiding), so that people around you respect you, like you.