糊涂就是爱自己,小糊涂就是大聪明,这不是悖谬。禅诗这样说道:“手把青秧插满田,低头便见水中天;六根清净方为道,退步原来是向前。”既然是退步,却是向前,讲的就是方法论。两性关系是讲求方法的,而所有的方法又是以不伤害对方为前提,所以,当你对某件事产生怀疑并寻求取证的时候,你先冷静地想一想,我这样做伤害他了吗?如果你还爱你的男 Confused is to love yourself, confused is smart, it is not absurd. Zen poem said: “Qingyang hand covered Tian, ​​bow their heads and see the sky; six clean square for the road, the original is to move forward.” Since it is regressive, but forward, talk about the methodology. The relationship between the sexes is methodical, and all the methods are premised on not harming each other. Therefore, when you are suspicious about something and seek evidence, you think about it for a moment and I hurt him If you still love your man