前不久,我收到一封咨询信,是一位在外企工作的梅女士写来的。她在信中诉说:“几年来,我在单位与在家里,简直判若两人。工作时,人们都尊重我,我感到自己才智过人,能力非凡。但每当踏进家门,我就感到力不能支,好像全身都散了架……因为,丈夫会大骂我低能、愚蠢、自私、幼稚。每当这时,我就感到胃有灼热的感觉,皮肤发紧,腿脚开始发软,并且头脑发涨,浑身发抖,心跳加快。我从来没有感到如此难 Not long ago, I received an advisory letter from a Chinese lady working in a foreign company. She wrote in the letter: ”In recent years, I was at a company and I was at home, and when I was working, people respected me and I felt that I was brilliant and competent, but whenever I stepped into the house, I I feel powerless and supportive, as if all my body is scattered ... because my husband will cursed me as low, stupid, selfish and childish. Whenever this happens, I feel the feeling of burning stomach, my skin is tight, Soft, and with my head up, my body trembling and the heartbeat going faster. I never felt so hard