大街上的流行歌,肥皂剧里的眼泪,无数寂寞被翻来覆去地诉说。当寂寞已是一个被滥用的词语,我们心底里的那种情绪,又如何找到一个替代词去形容呢?如果说没有人愿意成为寂寞的影子,大概也没有词语愿意作为寂寞的替代品。寂寞不同于孤独,孤独更近似于一种客观、永恒、中立的存在,而寂寞则给这种存在染上了一层貌似悲哀、负面、消极的感情色彩。然而,有时我宁愿细细体会自己的心,在一呼一吸中感受、分辨、猜测那笼罩我心的透明薄雾究 The pop songs on the street, tears in the soap operas, and countless loneliness were repeatedly talked about. When loneliness is an abused word, how does the emotion in our heart find an alternative word to describe it? If no one wants to be a shadow of loneliness, there is probably no word willing to be used as a substitute for loneliness. Loneliness is different from loneliness. Loneliness more closely resembles an objective, eternal, and neutral existence. Loneliness, on the other hand, gives this existence a feeling of sadness, negativeness, and negative emotion. However, sometimes I would rather understand my heart and feel, discern, and guess at the transparent haze that enveloped my heart.