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在人际交往中,谁都希望自己对他人具有某种魅力,招人喜欢,愿意和自己交往。这其实就是个人所具有的人际吸引力,个人风度、气质和魅力。如何使自己的行为举止有风度、有气质、有魅力?如何使自己对他人有吸引力,其中有许许多多因素,这些因素又都是可以通过自己自觉培养和锻炼而获得的。这里首先介绍一种因素,即通过恰当处理人际空间关系来提高自己的风度和魅力。所谓人际关系中的空间关系,就是说在人们相处和交往中,每个人都有维护自己的一个空间的要求。不喜欢别人侵犯自己的空间。这种空间又表现在两个方面,即人体的位置空间和人的思想空间、精神空间。
In interpersonal communication, no one wants to have some kind of charm for others, like people, willing to deal with their own. This is actually personal interpersonal attraction, personal style, temperament and charm. How to make your behavior demeanor, temperament, attractive? How to make oneself attractive to others, including many factors, these factors are all can be obtained through their own conscious training and exercise. Here first introduces a factor, that is, by properly handling interpersonal relationships to improve their demeanor and charm. The so-called interpersonal relationships in the spatial relationship, that is, people get along with and in communication, everyone has to maintain their own space requirements. Do not like people violating their own space. This kind of space manifests itself in two aspects: the human body’s position space and the human’s thought space and the spiritual space.