父母在儿童的心理健康教育中占有重要的地位,留守儿童父母的缺失使他们缺少情感上的交流和依赖,因此要对留守儿童多进行交流和沟通,让他们感受到身边亲人的温暖。祖辈在对孩子进行教育时,要注意说话的语气和教育的方式,不要因为觉得亏欠孩子就对孩子过分溺爱,满足孩子的任何要求,否则就会使孩子养成铺张浪费、娇惯、任性的毛病。 Parents occupy an important position in children’s mental health education. Lack of parents of left-behind children makes them lack of emotional exchange and dependence. Therefore, it is necessary to communicate and communicate with left-behind children so that they can feel the warmth of their loved ones. When educating their children, their ancestors should pay attention to the tone of voice and the way of education. They should not over-spoil their children because they feel that they owe them, and they will satisfy any child’s demands. Otherwise, they will develop their children into extravagant, spoiled and capricious problems .