6岁以上的孩子,对生死是有基本概念的,也有足够的逻辑听懂大人在说什么。在对待禁忌话题时,为人父母者如何将最深的恐惧和最痛的不舍,变成平静的对谈呢?我母亲年纪大了。这几年,她出远门或是生病住院,都会向我嘱咐些身后事——家里的存款、保险柜的密码,反复交代,让我背下来。只要听到妈妈说“蔻儿,万一我有什么事……”我就开始泪眼婆娑,心痛到根 Children over the age of 6 have basic concepts of life and death and have enough logic to understand what adults are saying. How do parents turn the deepest fears and the worst pains into calm conversations when dealing with taboo topics? My mother is old. In recent years, she was out of doors or sick hospital, will tell me some of the things that follow - home deposits, safe password, repeated account, let me back down. Just hear my mom say “Koeh, in case I have something ... ” I began to tears, heartache to the root