儿子还很小的时候,他父亲就去了南方,一去就不愿意回来了。若干年他因故回来后,我和他已无法生活在一起,毕竟南方的天空比武汉要新、要蓝,他根本无法面对眼前的一切。我开始郑重地审视婚姻,与其虚伪地相守,不如坚强地面对。于是我提出了离婚。他首先提出不要儿子。那时我是个什么状况呢?中年的我,单位倒闭,没有了工作,而他却将家里 When his son was still young, his father went to the south and was reluctant to return. After he came back for some reason, I could not live with him. After all, the sky in the south was newer and bluer than that in Wuhan. He simply could not face everything in sight. I began to seriously look at marriage, as opposed to its hypocrite, as strong as the face. So I filed a divorce. He first proposed not to have a son. At that time, what was the situation for me? In my middle age, the unit collapsed and got no work, but he left home