时下,我们会经常听到这样的抱怨;“人在江湖,身不由己”。面对这种情形,我们很容易丧失自己,常常发自内心地产生一种“自己找不到自己”的感觉;这时,我们需要独处。 所谓独处,是有意识地避免外界干扰、自己进行思考的过程。独处的方法有很多:当你静坐斗室时,当你漫步湖边之际,当你记日记的时候,当你坐在列车上,当你躺在沙滩上……独处,可以不受空间的限制,如果你愿意的话,即使置身于熙熙攘攘的人流和闹 Nowadays, we often hear such complaints; “people in the arena, involuntarily.” Faced with this situation, we can easily lose ourselves and often feel inwardly that we can not find ourselves. At this time, we need to be alone. The so-called solitude, is consciously avoid outside interference, their own thinking process. There are many ways to get alone: ​​when you sit in the cubicle, as you stroll the lake, when you remember the diary, when you sit on the train, when you lie on the beach ... alone, you are free from space constraints If you prefer, even in the bustling crowd and trouble