记得几年前随朋友到美国度假,我们住在朋友的弟弟家,当时他的第二个孩子刚出生没多久,一到睡觉时间,他就把孩子放在婴儿床上,任由孩子哭,哭多久都不管。那时,我就觉得这样对孩子很残忍,可是却有愈来愈多的人倡导这样的做法。哈佛医学院的神经生物学家玛丽·卡森通过研究发现,缺乏抚触与关爱的孩子,其发展会受到负面影响。她同时表示,孩子的压力愈大,发展状况就愈不理想。而来自著名儿童发 I remember a few years ago with friends on a vacation to the United States, we live in a friend’s brother home, when his second child was born shortly after, at bedtime, he put the child on the crib, let the child cry, cry How long do not care. At that time, I felt that this was cruel to my children, but more and more people advocated such a move. Harvard Medical School neuroscientist Mary Carson found through research that the lack of touch and care of children, the development will be negatively affected. At the same time, she said, the greater the pressure on children, the less satisfactory they are. From the famous children hair