几年来,某卫视的相亲节目成为了我观察社会的窗口。耐人寻味的是,与女嘉宾成功牵手的男士中,有修汽车的、卖面包的,有地产策划、赛车手、经销商、银行高管等等,却没有一位爱好文学、喜欢诗歌的人。女嘉宾们可以青睐一个商人,可以为一个肌肉发达的健身教练发出尖叫并激烈争夺,却都对“文艺范”的男嘉宾嗤之以鼻。 In recent years, a TV show has become a blind date for me to observe the society. What is intriguing is that among the men who have succeeded in handicrafts with the female guests, there is no caring, selling bread, real estate planning, racing drivers, dealers, bank executives, etc., but none of them loves literature and likes poetry. Female guests can favor a businessman who screams and fiercely battles for a muscular fitness coach but sniffs at the male guest of the “Fan Van.”