在我的老家冀南农村,孩子和妇女是不能上桌的。桌是一米见方的方桌,高一米许,放置堂屋的中央,两边各配有一把太师椅,还有略高于桌面摆放在桌椅之后的条几。这是上世纪六七十年代我们那一带普通农户家庭的标准配置。就我家来说,进得门来,右首的太师椅是专属我爷爷的,左首的则是我父亲的,打横的长条板凳,是已成年的哥哥坐的地方。母亲、大姐二姐三姐和我,吃饭时只能围坐在临时摆放的 In my native rural Hebei, children and women can not attend to the table. The table is a meter square table, one meter high, placing the center of the hall, each with an armchair on each side, there are slightly higher than the table placed in the table and chairs after a few. This is the standard configuration of our average farmer family in the 1960s and 1970s. For my family, getting into the door, the right head of the armchair is exclusive to my grandfather, the left is my father, hit the long bench, is where adult brother to sit. Mother, sister, sister, sister and I, can only sit around in temporary placement