任性固然是种不良的个性表现,但引导得好,任性可以向韧性方面转化。事物总是相反相成的。任性虽有其执拗、消极的一面,如表现为对自己的缺点、错误采取执拗不改的态度,这当然是不好的,需要讲清道理,促其改正;但是,为了扳掉任性,而让孩子时时事事服从家长的意见,按家长的意志办事,久之,反而会使孩子变成一个遇事毫无主见、唯唯诺诺的人,不利于孩子心理上的健康成长。所以,从孩子成才出发,做家长的应该根据情况,允许孩子有合 Self-willed is certainly a bad personality, but well-guided, self-willed can be transformed into toughness. Things are always the opposite of each other. Despite its stubborn and negative side, capriciousness, such as showing its attitude of stubbornness or misconduct against its own shortcomings and mistakes, is of course not good. It needs to be clear about reason and urge it to correct it. However, in order to get rid of the willfulness, Let children always obey the views of the parents, according to the will of the parents, a long time, but will make the child into a dishonest, non-man, is not conducive to the child’s mental health and growth. Therefore, starting from the child talent, parents should be based on the situation, allowing children to have a joint