我家母系家族的故事有点儿特别,妈妈是外婆的独生女,但小时候却有三个姨妈和几个表妹常常和我们住在一起,我弄不懂这几个姨妈和妈妈、外婆是什么关系。等到大一点儿,妈妈告诉我,外婆和外公早年就离婚了,她和姨妈们是同父异母的姐妹。明白了这一层,我却又看不懂外婆了,她为什么要照顾前夫的女儿和外孙女呢?而且在几十年里亲如一家。在我长大成人,经历了自己的爱情、婚姻和婚姻中种种出人意料的状况之后,才终于读懂了外婆,甚至对外婆产生了深深的敬意。我与外婆生活的时代截然不同,但有一类女人的宽宏与付出亘古不变,她们委屈了自己,强忍了心痛,却用宽爱垫造了一种非同寻常的亲情。我想说说外婆的故事和我亲身经历的事,听过的人一定会相信,人世间真的会有这样一种令人感动的、奇特的亲情存在。 The story of my matriarchal family is a bit special. My mother is the only daughter of grandmother. However, when I was a child, there were three aunts and cousins ​​who often lived with us. I did not understand how these aunties and mom and grandmother were. When I was older, my mother told me that her grandmother and her grandfather had been divorced in the early years. She and her aunt were half-sisters. Understand this level, but I do not understand grandmother, and why she take care of her ex-daughter and granddaughter? And for decades as a family. After I grew up and experienced various unexpected situations in my love, marriage and marriage, I finally understood grandma and even grandmother. My life with the grandmother is very different from the era, but there is a class of women’s ease and pay the same, they wronged themselves, forbear the heartache, but with a generous love cushion made an extraordinary affection. I would like to talk about the grandmother’s story and my own personal experience. Those I have heard will surely believe that there is really such a touching and strange affection in the human world.