有这样一类来访者,他们看上去很谦和,温顺,很愿意配合和顺从他人的意见,很少表达自己的态度和观点,但是由于他们过于谨慎客气,反而给人带来一种阻隔和距离感,让他人很难亲近。有时候,人们感觉对待这样的人要很小心,怕一不小心会伤害到他。所以,他们缺少特别深入、密切的人际关系,常常感到孤独,不知怎么融入群体,和他人打交道。32岁的余明,是一名机械加工工 There is such a class of visitors who are humble, gentle and willing to cooperate with and obey the opinions of others and seldom express their attitudes and opinions. However, because they are too cautious and polite, they bring about a barrier and a distance Feeling so hard to get close to others. Sometimes, people feel very cautious about treating people like this, afraid they hurt him by accident. Therefore, they lack particularly deep and close personal relationships and often feel lonely and do not know how to integrate into groups and deal with others. Yu Ming, 32, is a mechanical worker