对于孩子不想做的事情,父母可以规定:做完这件事,才能做一件他喜欢的事情。这样可以促使孩子完成自己不喜欢但应该做的事情。很多父母大概都有过这样的经历:孩子在公交车上或商场等公共场所,连哭带闹地提出一些要求。父母本来不想满足他,但如果孩子不停地哭闹,会吸引周围人的目光,而父母又不愿意在众目睽睽之下呵斥、管教孩子,结果往往不得不答应孩子的不合理要求。 For things that children do not want to do, parents can state that if they do it, they can do what they love. This can encourage children to do what they do not like but should do. Many parents probably had such an experience: children in public places such as buses or shopping malls, and even make some demands with trouble. The parents did not want to satisfy him. However, if the child kept crying, it would attract the attention of the people around him. However, the parents would not scold and discipline the children under the eyes of the public. As a result, they often had to agree with the children’s unreasonable demands.