妈妈坐在客厅里,帮5岁的雷纳缝钮扣,一不小心,指甲竟被拉链弄掉一小段,妈妈恨恨地说道:“气死我了,真想把它扭断。”隔了几天之后,雷纳独自一人在客厅里,专心地玩他的机器人。一个不慎,机器人的利剪割破了他的手指头,雷纳居然也学着前几天妈妈的口吻,恨恨地说:“他妈的,我真想把他的头扭断。”这样的场景,你大概似曾相识,或许你们家就曾出现过好几次吧,也许你不认为这是一件重要的事,所以不去阻止。其实,在一个家里,父母皆是孩子的样板,只要稍不留心,孩子便很容易从你身上“拷贝”出很多“坏影子”! 依据心理学家的说法,这叫“模仿”,也就是说,3～6 Mother sitting in the living room to help 5-year-old Lei Na sewing buttons, accidentally, nails actually get off a short zipper, mom bitterly said: “mad at me, really want to twist it.” A few days later, Reina alone in the living room, concentrate on playing his robot. A careless, robotic Lee shear cut his fingers, Reina actually learned a few days ago mother’s tone, bitterly said: “fuck, I really want to twist his head.” Such scenes, you probably deja vu, maybe your home has appeared several times, maybe you do not think this is an important thing, so do not stop. In fact, in a home, both parents are children’s model, as long as little care, the child will easily “copy” a lot of “bad shadows” from you! According to psychologists, this is called “imitation” Say, 3 ~ 6