爱因斯坦曾经说过:“世界最美好的东西,莫过于有几个头脑和心地都很正直的严正的朋友”。的确,人生难得一知己,一般人看来,所谓朋友,就是要志同道合。换句话说,就是要谈得来.也许你时常听到这样的话:“我们是不是朋友,是朋友就帮忙……”。这种把利益挂在嘴边的人,算是真正的朋友吗?让我们听听别林斯基对友谊的看法吧:“真正的朋友不是把友谊挂在口上,他们并不为了友谊而互相要求点什么,而是彼此为对方做一切办得到的事”.古人云:“近朱者赤,近墨者黑”.在日常生活中与之来往,结交朋友,尤其应注意认清这个人究竟是“赤”还是“黑”.若是赤,尽 Einstein once said: “The best thing in the world is that there are a few honest and solemn friends who have the right mind and heart.” Indeed, in life, it is difficult to know oneself. In the eyes of ordinary people, so-called friends are like-minded people. In other words, it is to talk about it. Maybe you often hear this: “We are not friends, we are friends and we help...”. Is this kind of friend who holds his interest in his mouth a real friend? Let us listen to Belinsky’s view of friendship: “The real friends are not hanging on friendship, they are not for mutual friendship. Ask for something, but do everything they can do for each other “. Ancient people cloud: ” near Zhu Zhe, near Mo black “. In the daily life in the past, make friends, in particular, should pay attention to Is this person a ”Red“ or ”Black"?