唐代诗人杜甫写过这样的诗句:“好雨知时节,当春乃发生,随风潜入夜,润物细无声。”如果把此诗的意境放在父母与子女的沟通和交流上,可以得到三点启发:一是不能忽略对孩子的早期培养和适应性训练;二是在对孩子的早期培养训练中找到父母与子女之间最佳的结合部;三是这种培养训练,就像知时节的好雨一样,根据他们不同时期身心发展的不同特点,循循善诱,帮助孩子启开心灵 Du Fu, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote the verse: “When the rain is in season, when the spring occurs, it sneaks into the night with the wind and moistens its way.” If you put the poetic mood in the communication and exchange between parents and children, Three inspiration: First, we can not ignore the early training of children and adaptive training; Second, in the early training of children to find the best parent and child combination; Third, this training training, just like to know Season’s good rain, according to their different characteristics of physical and mental development in different periods, follow the example of charity to help children open their hearts