六、“听话”儿童是问题儿童中国的孩子从小听得最多的词儿,便是“听话”二字;他们较早接受的观念之一,是“淘气是不好的”。因此,中国孩子最大的特点是“独立性差”和“胆小”。然而,从现代教育的眼光看,我们应当重新审视这种使用频率最高的家庭语言。《少年儿童研究》杂志曾推出这样两句活:“淘气的男孩是好的,淘气的女孩是巧的。”同时还提出:“‘听话’儿童是问题儿童。”据说,在上海引发了一 Sixth, “obedient” children are the problem children Chinese children heard the most children’s words, is “obedient” word; one of the earlier accepted concept is “naughty is not good.” Therefore, the biggest characteristic of Chinese children is “poor independence” and “cowardice.” However, from the perspective of modern education, we should re-examine the most frequently used family language. “Children’s Studies” magazine has put forward such two sentences: “Naughty boys are good, naughty girls are clever.” At the same time also said: “’obedient’ children are problem children.” It is said that in Shanghai triggered a