晚自习已上课五分钟了，一个学生才端着一杯水慢腾腾地走来。我在教室门口喊住了他，而他竟振振有词地说：“端水来晚了，去年的班主任从来就没过问过。”我没有生气，没有大发雷霆，也没有向他重述班规班纪。总之，没有实行一般常见的严明纪律的做法，而是朝他微微一笑，说： Evening classes have been five minutes class, a student carrying a glass of water slowly come. I shouted at the door of his classroom, and he actually said with some exclaims: “The water is late, last year’s class teacher has never asked before.” I was not angry, not furious, did not repeat to him Banji Banji . In short, instead of practicing common and strict disciplinary practices, he smiled at him and said: