美国心理学家艾德勒曾经说过:“那些从不关心他人的人,会在一生中遭遇很多的困难,并会严重地伤害他人。人类的种种过失,都是由这类人所造成的。”从另一个侧面来理解,一个善于关心他人的人,他不但自己容易取得成功,而且也不会伤害其他人。美国有一位名震全国的魔术大师,名叫哈尔·松尔斯顿,在舞台上 Adler, an American psychologist, once said: “Those who never care about others will encounter many difficulties in their lives and will seriously harm others. All kinds of human negligence are caused by such people . ”" On the other side, understand that a person who is good at caring for others is not only easy to succeed on his own, but also does not hurt others. In the United States, there is a Hall of Famer named Hal Carlesston, on the stage