如果你的老板是女人,那么,当你想跟同事讲她是非时,记紧,尽量离她有多远就多远,尽量把你们的声音降至耳语水平。因为,她会听到。如果你的老板是男人,那么,当你想跟同事讲他是非时,记紧,尽量离他有多远就多远,尽量把你们的声浪降至耳语水平,也尽量不要在自己的办公桌附近。因为他不但会听到,更糟的是,他能辨别到声源方向,他就能知道是谁在讲他坏话。根据日本临床心理医生植木理惠的《白熊心理学》,我们都有一种与生俱来的“顺风耳能力”。 If your boss is a woman, then when you want to tell her right from wrong, remember how far you try to be as far as she can and try to put your voice down to whisper. Because, she will hear. If your boss is a man, then when you want to tell his fellow him right and wrong, keep it as close as possible to how far away from him, try to put your voice down to whisper, but also try not to be at your own desk nearby. Because he will not only hear, but even worse, he can tell the direction of the sound source, and he will know who is telling him bad things. According to the Japanese clinical psychologist Pali psychology, “Bear Bears Psychology”, we all have a kind of “natural ability”.