你能包容对方多少缺点,就意味你的选择面有多宽。周末两天恋爱训练营工作坊,我要学员描述他们的理想伴侣,同时列出可以包容他/她的缺点是哪些。这些学员一向习惯了对理想伴侣的要求十全十美,可以有哪些缺点难住了他们。女学员写:不爱整洁,不爱做家务,不善于表达情感,不爱讲话。我问:这些不正是男人的本性吗,你认为是缺点?男学员写:爱唠叨,情绪化,爱逛街,经常买些没用的东西,爱 You can tolerate each other how many shortcomings, it means that your choice of how wide. Weekends two days love training camp workshops, I want students to describe their ideal partner, and lists the shortcomings that can accommodate him / her. These trainees have always been accustomed to the perfect partner’s request perfect, what are the shortcomings can not live with them. Female students wrote: do not love neat, do not love to do housework, not good at expressing feelings, do not love to speak. I ask: These are not the man’s nature you do, you think it is a disadvantage? Male students wrote: love nagging, emotional, love shopping, often buy something useless, love