很多人都有自己行为的底线,尽管因为生存环境的不同,底线各有差异,但不外乎“珍惜前程、珍惜家庭”,这是最普遍的底线。说白了,这根底线就是知耻之心,朱熹说过“耻便是羞恶之心, 人有耻,则能有所不为。”有位当了局长的朋友对我说过,“君子爱财,取之有道”是他的底线;不做让家人蒙羞、自己悔恨的事情,也是他的底线。他说给自己划条底线可维护尊严,尊严比生命更脆弱,没有的时候可以去追求,但一旦失去了就永远没有了。 Many people have the bottom line of their own behaviors. Although the bottom line varies due to different living environments, it is nothing more than “cherishing the future and cherishing the family”. This is the most common bottom line. To put it plainly, this bottom line is the heart of shame, Zhu Xi said “shame is shameful heart, shameful people, you can not do something.” A friend who worked as director said to me, “Gentlemen love Choi Choi, ”is his bottom line; do not make family members shame, their remorse, but also his bottom line. He said that to draw the bottom line to himself can maintain dignity, dignity is more fragile than life, when you can go after the pursuit, but once lost will never be.