“××抢我的东西了”“××把我的画弄破了”“××和××打架了”“××不跟我玩”……在孩子的日常生活中,常常会发生许多诸如此类的同伴交往中的矛盾和冲突。受传统教育思想的影响,一些家长和教师将孩子之间的冲突视为一种消极行为,认为冲突是具有破坏性的,是应该避免的。 “× × grab my stuff” × × broke my painting “” × × and × × fights “” × × does not play with me "... In children’s daily life, often many will happen Conflicts and conflicts in peer relationships such as these. Influenced by traditional educational thinking, some parents and teachers regard the conflict between children as a negative behavior, believing that the conflict is destructive and should be avoided.