孩子的中小学时期是播种的季节,稚嫩的心灵需要适时、适度的雨露的滋润与阳光的照耀。父母的教育方法也应该灵活多变,以取得“润物细无声”的效果。下面谈谈家教的“变”术。变虚为实。家长常教导孩子读书要专心,学习要认真,做事要有恒心等等,这些学习品质在一生中都是十分重要的。但如果对孩子经常唠叨,不一定会有成效,有时还可能引起反感。因为他们并不是不懂得这力面的道理,只是感到空阔无凭,无法落实。要使教育落到实处,家长就要尽可能地提供一个看得见、摸得着、可操作性强的活动方式,使“操练”清晰而有序地进行。例如,传统教育中的书法训练就是一种“操练”的好形式:练书法要身正、心 The children’s primary and secondary schools are seeding season, immature soul needs timely, modest rain moisture and sunshine shine. Parents’ methods of education should also be flexible in order to achieve the effect of “moisten things silently”. The following talk about tutor “change” surgery. Become real. Parents often teach children to concentrate on reading, learning to be conscientious, work perseverance, etc., these learning qualities are very important throughout life. However, if the children often nagging, will not necessarily be effective, and sometimes may cause aversion. Because they do not understand the truth of this force, they feel that they have no room for improvement and can not implement it. For education to be effective, parents should provide as far as possible a visible, tangible and operable way of doing things, so that “drills” will be conducted in a clear and orderly manner. For example, calligraphy training in traditional education is a good form of “exercise”: practice calligraphy to be honest, heart