这个世界上最不准的天平是称量自己得失的天平。我朋友的姑夫是一位农民,却说了一段一直深深影响着他的话。“我们很多人和别人交往,总觉得自己吃亏了,但实际上,旁人看来,你们彼此得失相当,你既没吃亏也没占便宜。如果你觉得自己不亏也不赚,那么旁人看来,你一定占便宜了；如果你觉得自己占便宜了,而对方没有跳起来．那么要么对方很伟大,要么你很伟大!” The worst balance in the world is a balance weighing your own gains and losses. My friend’s uncle was a farmer, but said for some time deeply influenced him. "Many of us associate with others and always feel that they have suffered a loss, but in fact, you and others seem to have a great deal of loss and gain, and you have neither loss nor profit. If you feel that you will not lose, You must have taken advantage of it, and if you feel that you have taken advantage of it and your partner does not jump, then either partner is great or you are great!