刘少奇同志说:“对孩子,一是要管,二是要放。什么叫管呢?不好好学习,品德不好要管;什么叫放呢?吃苦耐劳的事情,都要放心让孩子去做。这样可能孩子要跌些跤,但只有这样做,才能使他们受到锻炼,更好地成长起来。”在这方面,我们是有体会的。起初,我们因管理不到位,孩子不到3岁时便形成了娇骄、玩顽的脾性。如:尿湿了裤子,我们打他的屁股,他却说我们大人不给他 Comrade Liu Shaoqi said: “For children, one is to control and the other is to let go. What is the control? Do not study hard, the morality is not good; what is the best way to put things? It is possible that children may fall or fall, but only by doing so will they be able to exercise their muscles and grow up better. ”We are aware of this. At first, when we were not properly managed, our children formed a pent-up, playful temper until they were 3 years old. Such as: wet pants, we hit his ass, he said we adults do not give him