如今大凡结婚都要经过恋爱这个过程。然而，海员的恋爱有些特别，他们多是用笔去“谈”，依靠鸿雁信使来联络感情，从而在海陆间构筑起一道独特的恋爱风景线。 海霞的恋爱也象大多数的“海嫂”一样，没有太多的机会与恋人挽手在霓虹灯下、电影院里；而是用笔“谈”了整整三年才 Today, after all, marriage must go through the process of love. However, the special love of seafarers, they mostly use the pen to “talk”, rely on Swans courier to contact feelings, thus creating a unique love landscape between the land and sea. Haixia’s love, like most “sea-spouses,” does not have many opportunities to lover hand in hand under the neon lights in the cinema; but with the pen “talk” for a full three years