中央电视台《超级育儿师》节目中拍摄了许多幼儿教育中遇到的特殊问题的家庭,本文通过对2013年12月20日(北京吴建军家庭)节目中典型案例家庭中部分片段的分析,解读平等亲子关系对幼儿成长的影响。从家庭教育的言语表达与父母亲子态度的方面解析幼儿哭闹行为的背后原因,并从发展心理学的角度解析不良家庭亲子关系对于幼儿日后成长的影响。为父母有效解决幼儿哭闹行为提出合理化建议。 This paper analyzes the equality of some typical families in the program on December 20, 2013 (Beijing Wu Jianjun family) by analyzing the special problems encountered in preschool education during CCTV’s “Super Parenting Program” The impact of parent-child relationship on the growth of young children. Analyze the reasons behind the crying behaviors of children from the aspects of family education and parent-child attitude, and analyze the influence of parent-child relationship of poor families on the future growth of children from the perspective of developmental psychology. Propose reasonable suggestions for parents to effectively solve the crying behavior of children.