孩子是一本书,从童年到少年,从少年到青年,父母都在一页页往后翻,但要真正读懂它却十分不容易。为人父母者往往会发出这样的感叹:孩子越大,就越不了解他 (她)。是呀,孩子小的时候,你处处以一个长者的身份指挥着孩子的一言一行,并不曾真正体会孩子的感受。当孩子渐渐长大,你将会和孩子越走越远,代沟也随之产生。 The child is a book, from childhood to adolescence, from adolescence to youth. Parents turn back on a page, but it is not easy to read it. Parents often make such a sigh: the bigger the child, the less you know him or her. Yes, when children are young, you are always acting as an elderly person’s children’s words and deeds, and have not really felt the child’s feelings. As your child grows older, you will be walking further and further with your child and generational gaps will follow.