谢老师:结婚12年中,我承担所有家务,也和老公一起在生意上打拼。但老公掌控所有的钱,限制我和朋友交往,也杜绝我贴补娘家,跟我的父母闹得不太愉快。我们经常为了这些琐事吵架,每次吵完都是我主动和解。我现在越来越希望他能对我好一点,他如果对我好,我什么都可以忍受,他不给我钱也没关系,甚至和父母断绝关系都可以。怎么样才能让他对我好一点呢?—读者李鸣 Thanks teacher: 12 years of marriage, I assume all the housework, but also her husband and work hard together. But my husband is in control of all the money, restricting my contacts with friends, but also put an end to my girlfriend, my parents did not feel very happy. We often quarrel for these chores, and each time we are quarreled, I take the initiative to settle them. I am now more and more hoping that he will be able to treat me better. If he is good to me, I can tolerate everything. He does not give me any money or even cut off relations with his parents. How to make him better for me? - Readers Li Ming