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聆听、尊重孩子的感觉,承认他的想法,并且对他试图解决问题的努力表示赞赏,才有可能帮助孩子平息怒气。埃里克,九岁,怒气冲天地回到家里,他的班级本来打算去野餐,但是下雨了。以前他爸爸总是说一些让事情变得更糟的话:“天气不好,哭是没有用的。以后会有玩的时候。又不是我让它下雨的,你为什么要冲我发火?”但是,这一次,埃里克的父亲没有这么说,心里想:儿子对错过了野餐反应很强烈,他很失望,他用怒气向我表现他的这种失望,我可以帮助他的,只要对他的感受表示理解和尊重。于是
Listening, respecting the child’s feelings, recognizing his thoughts, and appreciating his efforts to try to solve the problem will it be possible to help children to calm their anger. Erik, nine years old, got home angrily and his class had intended to go for a picnic, but it rained. Before his father always said something to make things worse: "The weather is not good, crying is useless, there will be play time later, not I let it rain, why are you angry at me? But this time, Eric’s father did not say that and thought: son reacted strongly to missing the picnic, he was disappointed, he used anger to show him this disappointment, I can help him, as long as Expressed his understanding and respect for his feelings. then