如今的中国家庭大多只有一个孩子,父母的心血及家业的兴旺似全都维系于一根独苗.难怪望子成龙.望女成凤之心日趋殷切。这边“不要摔倒在人生起跑线哦”刚刚深入人心.那边“脑黄金”系列又闪亮登场。住房虽不宽敞.但一架硕大的钢琴总能堂皇进驻;收入也不丰裕,可家教市场依然火爆。真是可怜天下父母心！这里刊选的一篇文章对于他们来说堪称是一点点“育儿秘决”。长期以来,“皮大王”,“老留级”.“多动儿”以及那些智力平平的老实孩子总是父母的一块心病和责骂的对象,可是本文却从神经科学的角度揭示了儿童后天的发展与父母的早期培育有着密切的关系。智商虽然在很大程度上由遗传决定、但在婴儿时期,大脑仍处于不断发展和完善状态,因此这时候孩子最需要的.不是冷冰冰的玩具和甜腻腻的零食,而是“人”——父母与他们的情感交流和积极的启蒙活动。当然这些努力并不一定会造就一个爱因斯坦,但至少会养成孩子美好的性情和敏锐的心灵.而这些.正是明日成功的基石。 Today’s Chinese families mostly have only one child. The parents’ efforts and the prosperity of their family business all seem to be tied to a single seedling. It’s no wonder that Wang Zicheng has become a dragon. Here, “Don’t fall on the starting line of life,” has just entered the hearts of people. The “brain gold” series is shining again. Although the housing is not spacious, but a huge piano can always entertained magnificently; income is not abundant, but the market for tutoring is still hot. Really poor world parents! An article published here is a little “secret childcare” for them. For a long time, “Princess King”, “Old Retainer”, “Multiple Responsiveness”, and those honest children with mediocre intelligence have always been the object of a parent’s heart disease and scolding. However, this article reveals the development of children from the perspective of neuroscience. It has a close relationship with early parenting. Although the IQ is genetically determined to a large extent, but in the infancy, the brain is still in a state of constant development and perfection, so this time the child needs most. It is not a cold toy and a sweet and greasy snack, but “people” - - Parents and their emotional communication and active enlightenment activities. Of course, these efforts will not necessarily create an Einstein, but at least they will develop a child’s good temperament and keen heart. These are the cornerstones of tomorrow’s success.